AS WE approach February 14, it could easily be the start of a Valentine’s Day massacre. But it needn’t be thus...

A gifted orchid is a beautiful expression of love, but all too often the flower, not the love, slowly wilts on the vine.

Danny Ward sent me a picture of the longevity that can be achieved, with just a little care.

Eight years ago, a neighbour gave him a piece of her orchid when she split the plant and it has never been more beautiful, this year producing no less than ten flower stems.

There are thousands of weird and truly wondrous orchids out there these days but I think his is what is called an inter-generic orchid, a man-made hybridised creation probably involving one of my personal favourites, phalaenopsis.

There are some beautiful hybrids for sale at the moment, of which the dwarf varieties of phalaenopsis stand out for me.

Phalaenopsis and its relative, oncidium, are relatively easy to care for but they do not thrive on neglect.

They grow well in normal, warm, household conditions — preferably on an east-facing windowsill, although the latter will tolerate more light, if not direct sun.

Increase humidity around the plant by filling a tray with stones or gravel and adding rainwater. Place the plant on top of the stones so it doesn't sit directly in the water.

Most orchids live up trees in rainforests so they like rainwater.

Mist daily with a sprayer, feed twice a month during the growing season, re-pot every two years with a specialised orchid potting mix and, like Danny, you should feel the love — for years.

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